The ego compares us to others and then files it neatly away!!!

C PTSD - A Way Out

Strawberry shortcake: Grandkids influence
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A recent survey explained how some couples experienced good feelings or happiness because they were having more sex than the average couple. Another judgment we humans accept. Must be true.
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I might have disagreed with this statement twenty years ago, not now.
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Looking at this survey, we use comparisons to others as a basis for feeling happier than the next person. This is a flawed way of looking at life.
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We are not competing, comparing or needing to be better than others. This is false happiness, a cognitive comparison, aimed at making us feel better than the next human.
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If this were true, prostitutes would be far happier than any of us. This comparison destroys the premise of more sex being happiness.
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Watch what the ego brings forth as truth, like this idea of comparison. The ego always compares…

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